It would be a horrifying nightmare for a female Chinese-westerner, a Banana (yellow on the outside and white on the inside), to marry under her heritage's historical wedding customs. The traditions are outrageously superstitious, therefore are completely ridiculous. The act of marriage is merely a collaboration of families who now have more economic benefits; the ceremonies are merely celebrations of their economic growth.
There is very little or no love involved in the act of marriage, it's more about being able to live with this man for the rest of you slaving days. Marriage is basically a way for the father to exploit his daughter, and the nice wedding ceremonies are things used to justify his actions with.
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